This or That? A Little About Me (and a Few Naughty Hints)

by | May 11, 2025 | About Me, Date Ideas, Dominance, Q&A, Romance, This or that?

Morning coffee or slow-burn espresso date?
Morning coffee. Your Monday morning meetings will never be the same again!

Dog park hang or long, leash-free hike?
Dog park. My dog niece annoys her brother (and every other dog) too much to be leash free.

Red wine or a whisky with one perfect cube?
Whisky keeps me creative. Add a little soda water, and I’m good to go.

Rope play or mental play?
This is very unfair to ask. Today I choose mental play.

Dressed down or dressed to destroy?
Dressed down to destroy.

Private indulgence or public tease?
Public tease.

Muscle soreness from the gym or soreness for other reasons?
No reps, just rhythm.

Long lunch or late-night dessert?
Long lunch that turns into late-night dessert. I’m greedy, energetic and a yapper.

Receiving flowers or choosing your own at the market?
Receiving! I love gifts, especially flowers! Btw, I name my flowers after my date.

Candles lit or lights off completely?
Candles. PLEASE.

Paris in the spring or Kyoto in the fall?
KYOTO (writing in capitals to express my seriousness).

Fresh bread or fresh gossip?
Bread. What’s gossip?

Fancy dinner or well-earned takeaway?
I can be a homebody, and my body has really been enjoying home lately. Takeaway.
Back to dinner outside in about a week or 3.

Ocean swim or a perfect bath?
Let’s try an ocean swim…

Strong jawline or strong emotional intelligence?
Emotional intelligence.

Book in bed or a body in bed?
Yes.

Tied down or taken care of?
Yes, preferably both at once.

Gym beast or bedroom beast?
OMG yes.

Soft kisses or firm hands?
Yes.

Low-stakes banter or high-stakes flirting?
High-stakes flirting.

Vanilla ice cream or salted caramel?
Vanilla.

Peonies or tulips?
You tell me…

Suspense thriller or slow-burn romance?
Never seen a slow-burn romance. What shall we watch?

Custom playlist or shared silence?
Custom playlist.

Being spoiled or being trusted?
Yes.

Lazy Sundays or purposeful Mondays?
Lazy Sundays. I’m British.

Watching a film or making one of our own?

I’m thinking

GFE sweetness or FWE depth?
Keep me sweet.

Being your secret or being your obsession?
Being your secret obsession.

A single perfect night… or something that builds?
I fancy a single perfect night tonight.

What would you pick? Go on – challenge my answers… but only if you’re bold enough to do it over lunch.

Ciao for now,
– S

Written by Sable GoldSable Gold

Your companion for cultered experiences.

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