1. What’s a film you wish you could watch again for the first time and why?
Maybe we can watch it together and you watch me seeing it for the first time.
2. When was the last time you felt truly seen? Do you remember what you were doing?
3. What’s your most quietly persistent craving – not food, not sex, but something else?
4. Have you ever said “I’m fine” and desperately hoped someone would say, “No, you’re not, what’s wrong”?
Heads up: I will notice you and I will say this, and I will slow down time for you..
5. If someone took charge in exactly the way you secretly wanted… what would they do?
I know this is going to be so good!
6. Do you replay conversations in your head after they’re over? What’s one you never quite got closure on?
7. What’s the one decision you often imagine making differently?
8. What would someone learn about you if they observed your Sunday morning ritual?
9. When do you feel most attractive?
10. Who in your life do you perform for, even if they never asked you to?
11. Do you know how you want to be cared for, or do you just know what doesn’t work?
12. If you could press pause on the world for one hour, what would you do with it?
13. What does ‘connection’ mean to you when no one is watching?
14. Do you trust your instincts, or do you fight with them?
15. Who were you trying to impress the last time you bought something beautiful?
16. What have you been tolerating that you know, deep down, is quietly draining you?
17. Have you ever met someone and felt, “Ah… you get me,” before a word was spoken?
There is so much relief when you find your person.
18. What kind of power actually turns you on? control? Certainty? Restraint?
19. What would it take for you to ask to be led?
20. And if I asked you which question here stayed with you longest… which would it be?
I know these questions got you thinking, and this is just the beginning. I’ve got plenty more where these came from.
I’d love to hear your answers, so drop me an email with a few of them, including the favourite film you’re planning to introduce me to. xx